Is Love Painful?

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People talk lot about love. I am no exception. Everyone wants to play a safe game. Be it experienced one or others who may not have merge with love, but everyone here have some words in their quilt of heart to express. Expressions is everyone’s right. However, Is love same that we blabber and scribble? People who have had a first hand experience with dear love can have a very different perspective or perception from the one who have seen it only far from the window. God would have felt that love has the capacity to drench a thirsty heart, but love comes with agony, pain, craving for more and more love, sorrows and loneliness. Not only these are enough you still can add something more to your love parcel accusations and blames.

The road to love is necessarily not flowery.  Happiness coupled with sorrows, appreciations with accusations, and togetherness with loneliness. Sometimes companionship has to witness sunset of desertion. Therefore, such a heavy price one has to pay for love. If all your efforts fail to give life to your love, then it’s all destiny.

Cupid may or may not notice you. For some it hits on the heart, for others it miss.  When love enter your heart your life change, colour change, your view also change. Everyone have their own definition of love, they vouch their own dictum.

Loyalty trapped by infidelity, sacrifices eclipsed by selfishness. Still people don’t fail to affirm that they love and their love is true and pure. Love has magnetic properties; whatever it brings along with itself it takes back all traces of happiness, hope, joy, affection, care, belongingness and coziness.

You begin your love journey with new words in your lexicon and you end up with new transformed definition. Like, if love enters your garden, you welcome it and your life becomes beautiful and love persevere through deep painful sea of hard times when you are together and one. Contrary to this, when love begin with beautiful moments and when two people travel through road paved with stones, experience bitterness, agony, accusations, unanswered questions, separation and loneliness. They end with transformed definition.

Its all Kismet, Karma and Connection! Some caressed by bliss some really miss….Hope when True Love enters your life you stay blessed and may it be everlasting…....


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The Golden Elegance - The Real Beauty

There is no perfect definition of beauty. Definition of beauty has seen many variations in it with the passing time. Beauty is what looks beautiful to your heart. That touches your heart. That soothes your heart. The outer beauty talks about flawless assets and physical appearance. Then there is inner beauty that talks about the inner world. At a point where outer beauty restricts itself confines itself inner beauty originates and spread its roots. Beauty varies from eyes to eyes, from perception to perception. What seems ugly to one may look beautiful to another.

The real beauty lies deep within. It belongs to every beautiful heart and beautiful soul. It does not confine itself to physical appearance. It is beyond that. A heart full of benevolence, compassion, kindness, mercy, forgiveness, love and humanity is a beautiful heart. These are the ornaments of beauty. These ornaments are for every common person. You need not to buy these treasures from the market to enhance your beauty. They affix glow and spark to the person. Women create magic when she develops trust, when she nourishes love, when she provides warmth, when she sprinkle care, when she adorns confidence, she becomes elegant than ever.

Beauty is not only about looks, it is more of feeling beautiful inside. You look beautiful when you look in your true honest eyes. You look beautiful when you see the reflection of your pure soul clearly visible on your face. When you lend a hand, when you can lend an ear for someone’s pain, when you knelt down on your knees to pray for someone, you look beautiful. Your beauty reaches and touches someone’s heart. This beauty is not, only real, it is eternal. It is perennial. No matter you have zero figure or not, no matter your beauty bones are visible or not, no matter if you have plump belly, no matter if you have broad or slender waist, no matter you have fine lines of wrinkles on your face, still for the Nature, you are most beautiful. The creator has made each one of us beautiful in our own unique way. You are special; you are unique soul, not only for a day, perhaps, for your entire life.

I have seen a woman of middle age feeding a hungry man, who was handicapped. There were wrinkles on her face, still her compassion; her kindness has made her beautiful to me. I have seen an average looking woman who strives for her daily life; she sells products, so to collect money for her daughters’ wedding. For me, her looks hardly matters but what matters is her deep-seated confidence, her hope for her dreams and the ability to survive with dignity. This is her real beauty for me. I still remember a very old woman who was trying hard to cross the road, but the traffic was putting resistance every time when she attempt to cross. Then, I held her hand and we successfully cross the road. There was a smile in her old eyes, which travelled her lips and she passed that smile to me with words of blessing. Her real smile made her look more elegant in spite of her old age.

A beautiful person dwells in a beautiful heart. A real person is entitled to be beautiful. Every one has those precious treasures. Love enhances one’s inner beauty. Love for others and love for your own self, the confidence, the strength to survive amid extreme situations is what makes you beautiful. Let your charm, let your grace, and let your beauty shine and shimmer always.

Being beautiful is not all about being slim, tall, and fair, with perfect body, with perfect looks. It is beyond that. Though many a times, it starts with outer looks but it always ends with real aura that one has, and that one can creates.

There is no prefect beauty, there is subtle ugliness, and then there is real beauty, the real beauty comes from deep within, turning your sub conscious mind and your soft heart unprecedentedly beautiful. Beauty is there in thought, in mind, in heart and in actions. Exploring your soul and then spreading your vibrant real beauty to every corner. When you explore you reach some unknown, some vague chapters of real beauty.....

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Important Tips for Making Relationship Beautiful & Everlasting- Part II

In the previous part I, I had discussed few points relevant for any relationship to make it healthy and beautiful. Why is it important to make relationship strong and full of life? Have you ever thought about this? The answer is simple; you love a person who is your life now.

Some people easily express their feelings and some find it hard to voice them. Many reasons are responsible for this like shyness, reservations, hesitations, fear, resentments, etc, and so it differs from person to person. Communication is the key component to rekindle your relationship. It helps in sorting out the misunderstandings that have been hanging on your neck like a rope since long. It helps you to tell your innermost feelings and act as a channel for sharing your embedded emotions. Sometimes it is necessary to reveal your inner feelings. A message should always be conveyed to the person who holds importance in your life.

Conflicts happen in every relationship. There are some critical moments in everyone’s relation and love, but it depends on both the partner how to resolve those differences and sort out their conflicts. Always make an effort to end the conflicts before the day ends, and if that does not happen then, surely, with the arrival of new dawn open your doors for this new ray of hope and love. Try to avoid heated arguments. You may come out as a winner in the situation but remember you can loose the person. Never let your anger dominates you; you guide it rather than anger ruling you.


Disrespect and humiliation are the embedded reasons which can pierce your soul mate’s heart. Never ever yell on your partner, remember there are ways of handling any crucial situation by making the communication peacefully so as to make the matter light. Whenever, you will inflict your partner it will inflict you equally, you will go through the same pain but more intense too. It subsequently will make none of you happy.


Showering blames and accusations on your soul mate for any problem, trouble, misunderstanding, circumstances and misfortune will never make the picture beautiful. It will always tarnish the picture of your love and marriage relationship.


Reviving old bad memories and again having conflicts on the mistakes that had been committed by your partner knowingly or unknowingly even after he/she had realized their mistake can make the situation and relationship worse. After forgiveness is granted never open that matter over and over. Remember reviving those nightmarish memories will reap the seeds of anger, grief and sorrows. It will breed only resentment. It is a flame that can burn your relationship and turn it into ashes.


Don’t slap the person for that deadly past, if they hold any, once in their life, as they have had shared with you those painful times. By confronting them to it you are reviving those wounds and in that whole unnecessary process you forget, they had laid their trust on you believed you to heal and cure their wounds.


Never question your soul mate, what have they done for u? Never say, it’s me, who has done everything in this relationship, it goes on and on. Always observe in silence whatever your love your soul mate has done for you. Don’t measure their love and affection in this brutal way. Remember, they did all for u, while facing all the hardships of life. Contrary to it, you must at least try to reward your partner for the pains they had taken only for you. Even if your partner might have not done anything for you, and you might have done everything for them, but don’t you think, love alone is the reason enough to do that, it was only love which bounded you to do that.


Fill all the vacuums, as a good deed done with a pure heart never go unnoticed. A message conveyed with a heart filled with true love always reaches its destination. A voice that was unheard since long will be heard.

So don’t waste your time, if you have not made any attempts till yet, then let your love reach your beloved’s heart. Let them feel your love, your affection, your care in the most beautiful way.

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Important Tips for Making Relationship Beautiful & Everlasting - I

Relationships are very important in man’s life they are the core and life support system on which human species are depended. Though you might have met some people, who often assert that, they don’t need any relation to live this life. But they forget, man needs to have a reason for coming back to home. Love is quintessential for life, as it travels through the heart. It embellishes life and makes it worthwhile to live with someone precious. But, if the same relationships are not given due care, they start loosing their essence and gradually vanish away. Before you could make an attempt to save it, it goes beyond your reach. It happens with so many people, but some people put tremendous efforts to save their relationship and finally taste the victory, the victory of love.

Here are few points which though are very simple, yet forgotten. When ponder upon can attain fruitful results.


Love is the most important essence for any relationship. It is the love which acts as a binding force and it equally helps in binding and interweaving other crucial factors. It brings warmth and affection even in hard tough times.

Persistent hard work is the continuous which accelerates the other interlinked key components requisite for any relationship. The zeal to work perseveringly on your relationship adds fuel to the dying relation. If you do not have that zeal and enthusiasm to work for your beautiful relation, the relationship becomes monotonous. It’s not a one day work; you will have to work hard fervently and with everything so as to maintain your continuity.



Expression of feelings makes the road of relationship smooth. Though people know they love each other so much and are there for each other. But, at times, it is necessary to reveal your feelings, as it affirms your emotions that you have for your partner and your partner sees a reflection of your love in it. Though, the ways of expression, can be different from person to person and can be conveyed by words or by gestures. You can make an effort to express your inner feelings without searching reasons and necessity for it.


Fidelity and loyalty are the resources which reinforces your bond with trust and faith. It builds the seeds of respect or weeds disrespect, mutual trust on each other. Infidelity and disloyalty can open avenues for penetration of resentment in the walls of your partner’s heart.


Trust and faith on your soul mate are the voice of your inner feelings and your belief. Trusting your partner is significant as it strengthens your relationship. Thereby, leaving not a single place and corner vacuumed, for any doubts and compunction. Like, if you trust your partner and believe him for anything, it eventually, reassures him that someone who is their world, is there with him and especially for him. Isn’t worthwhile for you?


In this busy and stressful life taking out leisure hours seems impossible especially when both the partners are working, or when someone is following long distance relationship. But taking out small amount of time for your beloved can add momentum to your relationship. You can make a call, can arrange for some surprises, for a date too. Here you are pitching for something precious which is hard to find in today’s life i.e. time. But, certainly, it will be very beneficial for your relation and will relieve you from stress too.

Next few points will be there in series II

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Fairness? Beauty and the Indian Mindset!!!

Definition of beauty varies from person to person, what seems beautiful to one may seems ugly to the other and vice versa. It just based on principle of perception towards anything and thinking seeds engraved in the mind. An importance is given to fairly looking girl and it always is accompanied with biasness. Dark complexion and fairness cream are twins, parallel to each other.

Although this beauty is more underscored when it comes for the selection of a bride and also for the cosmetic industry, isn’t true? If you go through the matrimonial columns or matrimonial sites, the parameter for beauty or elegance is kept as a rigid old age norm “a fair complexion beautiful girl”. Today we have mass media tools but this has been practice since time invariably, even after so many changes in the social environment. People very easily reject the girl only for the reason not being fair white skinned even although if she meet up perfectly all the other qualifying standards set by them in the process of selection of bride. For example education, smart, well cultured, some times homely house wife or sometimes professional, etc. but if she lacks in this criteria then she can be subjected to quick rejection, here it reveals that fairness is so important to be perfect bride.

A girl is being realized that she is not capable because she is not fair so she is not beautiful. This smashes her self confidence and curtails her love for herself which sooner or later diminishes. Nothing is left except to feel helpless with the wounds embossed in her heart.

The role of fairness cream has been significant, as the advertisements of fairness cream portrays the reflection of the society. The market is rampant with various fairness creams, with a promise to give cures and solutions to heal these wounds. The focus is always on getting fairer and fairer. This is projected as the perfect idea of beauty. Not only for marriage but to achieve success the fairness cream has been crucial this has been shown by many advertisements like for being airhostess, actor and commentator one just need to use these creams, the advertisement suggest to use this cream and it will unlock all the doors of success. However, success comes with hard work not on the skin colour.

Well, the dusky and the wheatish complexion had its own beauty. People need to apprehend that the skin whitening has nothing to relate with external factor as it is based on genetic factors and pigmentation of the skin, melanin the deciding factor of the skin colour. Discrimination has degraded the image of Indian beauty.

But what is more important for a person is to be a good human being and beautiful from heart. It is the inner beauty which reflects the outer beauty and is eternal something precious to live with.

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Some Never Ending Questions!!!

Why there is so much of pain and agony?

Why there is a never ending journey of eclipses and darkness?

Why there is no moonlit falling on palms?

Why there is no hope for a better tomorrow?

Why there is a sinking desire for love and faith?

Why there is bitterness in the delicacy of life?

Why this agony can't be shared?

Why is it so difficult to cast them aside?

Why there are longings and deep mourning?

Why there is no strength to cross the barriers?

Why there is only trembling and shaking in moving ahead?

Why this luck line this fate line never changes, so dark it appears on one's palm that it never fades.

Why there is no serenity in eyes?

Why there is no drop of peace and tranquility?

Why there is always betrayal of fate?

Why there is reminiscence of dreams embedded?

Why there is only silhouette of dream drawn on canvas of life?

Why there is no true smile?

Why there is no wish coming out from the closet of heart?

Why there is no hope?

Why there is only ugly restlessness?

Why there is only unknown territory?

Why there is no easy acceptance?

Why there is no harmony, no flow and waves?



Human lives are full of such expected and unexpected emotions. This is a part of everyone's life. You can't run away from this even if you suppress your emotions, your feelings, some day or the other will upthrust to the surface of life. The desire to explore one’s self, one's inner voice, voice of love and faith, voice of strength, true voice of heart that connects us to our soul and our very self. There is never ending array of questions perplexing your life, still unanswered. Some things are always left uncompleted, unattended to understand as they are difficult to comprehend. This melancholy, this anxiety, this fear, this insecurity, this gloominess have all become a part of life.



Amazingly, you run after them, searching in darkness and sometimes you are just left with question, Why Me??

Who is Bad??

"We are not born Bad.....

Sometimes World, Sometimes People, Sometimes Situations, Sometimes Emotions, Sometimes Helplessness, Sometimes Words, Sometimes Silence, make us bad......
But then too,
We can Love and be Loved too......"

Kuch Tum Kaho…………

Aaj fir se tum kuch keh do…...

Aaj fir se is khamoshi ko todh do…...

Aaj fir se teri yaad aye hai……

Aaj fir vo bheegi raat aye hai……

Aaj fir mujhe us lamhe mein beh jane do……

Aaj fir mujhe apni baahon mein so jane do……

Aaj fir se tera ehsaas meri saaso mein chahya hai……

Aaj fir se tera saya mere daaman mein samaya hai……

Aaj kuch bhi nahi mere paas, teri yaado ke siva…..

Aaj kyu hai teri baatein yu mujhse khafa……

Aaj fir se tere dard ne mujhe apna sa banaya hai……

Aaj fir se teri kahmoshi ne mujhe rulaya hai……

Aaj fir se tum kuch keh do……

Aaj fir se is kahmoshi ko todh do……

Many a times in life, people don’t express their emotions, their innermost feelings to the one they love, they remain silent……there are people who just wait for that one drop of love, they expect their love to say, their heart cries for that one drop of love……but how long?? No one knows……conveying your love is so very important in life and convey it to the person of your life before its too late and those gaps are filled by someone else……because how long one can wait and how long you will take?? No one knows………

Its Just Life!!!

Sometimes when we try to have a strong grip on our life….it just slips away, it just melts. Whenever we think we can control life, it becomes unruly. Sometimes we move, sometimes we run, and in both we are subtly chasing life.

Why this chase??? Sometimes it’s for success, sometimes for money, sometimes for luck, sometimes for dreams, sometimes for fame, sometimes for relationships, sometimes for lust, sometimes for love.  In total, just to have a perfect frame for life. Sometimes this chase is for an unknown horizon, unknown shadow of hope, unknown shadow of love, shadow of fate and fortune, unknown solace, unknown bliss, and unknown ecstasy. Sometimes we chase for something which is bound to happen, which is destined, but not knowing this we keep running after it. We become travelers, we become vagabonds.

The chase differs from person to person and so it’s meaning and significance. But what is common is that is every one is running after something.  Though we stumble and fall, but we rise again, though we sometimes step back but again we step forward, sometimes we sit quietly, but we talk again, sometimes we become still but we move again, sometimes we sink in darkness but we traverse towards light, to continue just to have few drops of hope, to have few words, for a new dawn, for those budding dreams, for fantasies, for our fairytales, for reality.

Many a times in life, we land nowhere even after acquiring for what we have chased for so long, so persistently, so dramatically, nothingness becomes our friend, and emptiness becomes our beloved. The crisscrossed lines of our sweating palms becomes hazy, faded and finally disappear just like a moon amidst the unclear sky.

We still inhale life, extract our dreams and move on, the chase continues till our last breath…and our soul glancing at it.

Empty Page!!!

It’s 2 O’ clock of a winter night,

A charming darkness, knitted stars bright,

I don’t have anything to write today…..

I don’t have a word, to say my way….

Is it that I am feeling blue?

Or some other reason, I have no clue.

I have nothing to pen down,

No words in my basket to weave around….

Is it the silence that making me bound?

Or is it the pain, which I have yet not found?

I don’t feel like lifting my pen today,

I love my pencil, both drifting away….

Is it the solitude that has become my friend?

Or is it the night not ready to end?

Is it the insomnia that has intoxicated my nerves?

I am plain and blank….

Has nothing to serve.

It’s 2 O’ clock of a winter night,

A charming darkness, knitted stars bright,

I don’t have anything to write today…..

I don’t have a word, to say, my way….

Frozen Love & Ecstasy!!!

Every heart has its own story, some are blessed with happy ending, some feels immense pain of ugly vague ending, while rests have never ending story. For some love quenches their heart, while others content with parched heart. Some souls are bestowed with eternal bliss of being coalesced, while other gets goodbye kiss. Some get red roses on every Valentine’s Day, while some just craves when will love knock at their heart?

She was standing near the window, when he entered and clasped her. She could feel his breath caressing her neck. She was clutched in his arms and he was clutched in her memories. She could feel the warmth of his fingers when he tickles her body. She could feel the stiffness, the heaviness of his heart when he was near her. The way he kissed her hand, the way he freeze her lips. He didn’t even peep into her eyes though felt her tears with great ease. As she turned and tried to step away so as to conceal her tears from him, he resisted and kissed her melting tears. She knew that he can never ever bear a tear rolling down from her eyes. And this pain was killing him, because the reason for the same he gifted. When he sleeps, she sat next to him caressing him, ruffling his hair. The ambience of the room has dim light, the orchids were no more spreading their fragrance, and they have become all dried. Silence was the only abstract emotion screaming its presence. Not a word he said, not a word she heard. The moonlit was not affable; the window panes since long have not been plash by tiny raindrops.

His quixotic behaviour, his insensitivity, his numbness, and the frost in his emotions were killing her, wounding her already shattered soul, tearing into pieces her dried dead heart. The more she tries to cover the bridge, the more it get widens. The more she talks, the more he adores silence. No dialogues, just monologue. Even the painting hanging on the wall says its story, but he just embraces silence. He smothered his feelings, he always knew how much his ignorance, his neglect ion has hurt her, pierced her heart.

But there is a chemistry that works between her talks and his silence. This is the dynamics on which love works. Love has its own magic. The vibes she gets, he never understands. Whatever she proposes, he disposes. She dreams of him and chases her dreams. He chases urban real world. She believes in simplicity, he is blind towards it. She sings love songs; he is busy in dancing with work around. She cooks just for him, but he is busy only to taste the modern material, social world. She wants to look beautiful in his eyes, but he adores the fake plastic beauty, those eyes have no place for her. Nevertheless, she has surrendered her heart that beats for him. He is treasured there.

Stolen moments, precious memories, proximity, coziness, fragrance, smiles and blushes, a soft, sparking touch, nebulous emotions, those moments of happiness, of hope, of belongingness, those intense longings, those crispy fights, those sessions of wooing each other, those moments of when one lingers for hours, for someone, for someone’s call, messages, mails. One chocolate, one ice-cream, one sip from beloved’s coffee mug, strolling in the moon light, those long walks with interweaved fingers, late night talks, those pillow fights, hunger strikes, snatching each other sandwich, those long drives and getting wet with heavenly rains, those snowy pecks on the cheeks, those care and affection, a sudden moment of joy and a day full of pain. Casket of love always comes with mixed smokes of emotions, utterly sublime feelings. The same heart that throbs sometimes skips to beat, the eyes that sometimes store anger, fury, melts at another moment. The heart that sometimes seems insensitive is actually the most caring one. That’s the Beauty of Love.

She was sitting on the stairs, staring at unknown horizon. Suddenly the phone rang making her realized that she was lost in dreaming about him. He was no more near her. But whenever she sits with folded arms, he is in them, clutched in her memories. Reminiscence of her last conversation with him…..

He – “I Love You, promise me, you will never ever leave me alone”.

She – “I promise, I will not, but promise me you will never kiss the cigarette”.

When love strokes your heart, cuddle with your soul, life becomes beautiful, love solaces you, soothes you. Apart from that, it makes you human. In spite of the pains and agony, it is worthwhile to fall in love, at least to taste the life. This is the best promise one can offer and the best gift one can receive.

Love has so much to offer, it’s just that how much are you ready to absorb….Its time to fall in love as this season is ready to offer you All love with open arms.

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Being Loved!!!

Love has the spell to allure you. Love has the charm to sway you with your partner. When you love your beau its not only for the reasons what they are made up of, there certain qualities. Not only for some special attributes, but also for various amazing storming grounded reasons. For what they love you, what they appreciate in you, what you become when you are with them. You just love that aura of your inner self when you are with them. It’s the way they make you feel. It’s the warmth they ignite in you.

Can you ever love a person, who just claims that he/she loves you, but dislikes you for what you are? Who most of the time makes you feel inferior and leaves no opportunity to humiliate, he just want you to feel humiliated in your own eyes? No, you really can’t love them. You will unconsciously develop an aversion towards them. These kinds of people become source of feelings of agony, hatred, fury, anger, revenge, and traces of negativity. You start keeping your self away from them. You create a huge distance between you and them. Its human e and natural too, you can’t avoid that. It’s just not confined to lovers, but it goes from teachers, boss of your office, friends, neighbour, etc. you love a friend, teacher, boss, neighbour, lover or spouse, or lover who just admire you, your qualities, appreciates you, who makes you feel valuable in your own eyes. You flaunt about your assets (your attributes). They just kindle the spark in you. They make you love your own very self. They bring amazing changes in you. They rejuvenate you all over again. You love being with them. You are never afraid to voice your emotions and feelings in front of them. You don’t have to be artificial while being around with them. You don’t have to put fake smile on your lips all the time.

You naturally get inclined towards a person who is so very fond of you. A rapport is developed, the cupid works, a chemical reaction accelerates, you get positive vibes and love strokes your heart. It rapidly grows the loves you feel best in you. So just love your partner from the core of your heart because nothing remains except for love…So guys and girls its time to Love Someone and Being Loved!!!

Tere Naina…..

Tere naina yu, kuch na kahe,

Raat bhar yu chup chup se rahe…

Raat bhi madham se dhale,

Tu jo sath chale…par

Tere naina yu kuch na kahe,

Raat bhar yu chup chup se rahe…

Tere naina hai jo khawabo se bhare,

Naina bhi kuch na samjhe bawarae..

Nainon mein base jaise ansuoon ke gharaunde,

Naina bhi akele jaise do parindey…

Tere naina yu kuch na kahe,

Raat bhar yu chup chup se rahe…

Tere naino ki galiyo mein andhera sa chaaye,

Boond bhi dhere dhere chalaki se jaye…

Tere naina na jane koi batiya, na koi bhasha,

Nainon mein gehri udasi, adhuri si abhilasha…

Tere naina, yu kuch na kahe,

Raat bhar yu chup chup se rahe….

Tere nainon mein oas ki thand ka basera sa hai,

Umeed ke saaye mein andhera sa hai...

Tere nainon mein yu dhua sa chalke,

Zasbaato ka aiyna dhundla se jhalke…

Tere naina jo baaton se saje,

Tere naino me tera pyar jo basse…

Tera naina yu kuch na kahe,

Raat bhar, yu chup chup se rahe…

Few Easy Ways to Find Out that Someone Likes You?

Does he/she like you? Does somebody fascinate about you? Is someone getting inclined towards you? These questions just pop up every now and then whenever either you are with that person or even during his absence too. Simple and discernible ways can help you to some extent to find these cozy answers. Find out through these ways.

If he/she is interested in you then he/she will have inquisitiveness about you and to calm this inquisitiveness they will inquire about you and your temperament and behaviour. They will try to explore about your likes and dislikes, about your daily life routine, every other thing related to your life.

They will find you attractive and will reveal their likeness that they hold towards you to a common friend between you and them. You will notice that most of the times they are looking towards you and are hooked on you can hardly keep their eyes off to you.

They will always be in search of an opportunity to commence conversation with you. It is a natural inclination. They will try to cover the distances of unfriendliness between you and them. They will try to build healthy proximity between you and them.

You will find an unusual smile traveling on their lips when you are near them. This smile is long lasting and will stay for a longer time rather fading away soon. Though they are very talkative or may appear chatterbox, but when they come in front of you, they cease to be the same they become hesitant and hold their tongue. When they are talking to you and somebody appears especially of the opposite gender they generally do not like that and finds it irritating to them, sometimes this irritation is clearly visible in their behavior. They will find ways to meet you even just to have a glimpse of you, and never miss the chance of spending some quality time with you to talk with you to know you better. If you ask them to accompany you somewhere, they will cancel their best plans and parties all for to have a good time with you.



You will observe that most of the time they will identify themselves with you sometimes knowingly and sometimes unknowingly. There will be many chances when they will relate themselves with you, for example, when you go out with them for a lunch or dinner and order your favorite cuisine in meal you will suddenly notice that they will also make a choice for that same cuisine. Well, it can be anything from your favorite chocolates, ice creams to shakes and coffees. They are just doing this to show relative ness towards you. Sometimes they do consciously and sometimes unconsciously.

The people who are fond of you and like you will always be ready to help you at odd times. You will notice that they are very comfortable with you, like sharing their best plans and dreams to you. They will transform this unknown bond to next level, of sharing problems to you. They will be comfortable with you. Whenever they miss you and your company will call you up even at odd hours and will hardly feel like keeping phone. There will be increase in frequency of calls with time. They will never try to ignore you, even when they are not in a good mood.


However, these may differ from person to person and their personality and temperament. So, the next times if you find any such kind of signs then think upon it...