In the previous part I, I had discussed few points relevant for any relationship to make it healthy and beautiful. Why is it important to make relationship strong and full of life? Have you ever thought about this? The answer is simple; you love a person who is your life now.
Some people easily express their feelings and some find it hard to voice them. Many reasons are responsible for this like shyness, reservations, hesitations, fear, resentments, etc, and so it differs from person to person. Communication is the key component to rekindle your relationship. It helps in sorting out the misunderstandings that have been hanging on your neck like a rope since long. It helps you to tell your innermost feelings and act as a channel for sharing your embedded emotions. Sometimes it is necessary to reveal your inner feelings. A message should always be conveyed to the person who holds importance in your life.
Conflicts happen in every relationship. There are some critical moments in everyone’s relation and love, but it depends on both the partner how to resolve those differences and sort out their conflicts. Always make an effort to end the conflicts before the day ends, and if that does not happen then, surely, with the arrival of new dawn open your doors for this new ray of hope and love. Try to avoid heated arguments. You may come out as a winner in the situation but remember you can loose the person. Never let your anger dominates you; you guide it rather than anger ruling you.
Disrespect and humiliation are the embedded reasons which can pierce your soul mate’s heart. Never ever yell on your partner, remember there are ways of handling any crucial situation by making the communication peacefully so as to make the matter light. Whenever, you will inflict your partner it will inflict you equally, you will go through the same pain but more intense too. It subsequently will make none of you happy.
Showering blames and accusations on your soul mate for any problem, trouble, misunderstanding, circumstances and misfortune will never make the picture beautiful. It will always tarnish the picture of your love and marriage relationship.
Reviving old bad memories and again having conflicts on the mistakes that had been committed by your partner knowingly or unknowingly even after he/she had realized their mistake can make the situation and relationship worse. After forgiveness is granted never open that matter over and over. Remember reviving those nightmarish memories will reap the seeds of anger, grief and sorrows. It will breed only resentment. It is a flame that can burn your relationship and turn it into ashes.
Don’t slap the person for that deadly past, if they hold any, once in their life, as they have had shared with you those painful times. By confronting them to it you are reviving those wounds and in that whole unnecessary process you forget, they had laid their trust on you believed you to heal and cure their wounds.
Never question your soul mate, what have they done for u? Never say, it’s me, who has done everything in this relationship, it goes on and on. Always observe in silence whatever your love your soul mate has done for you. Don’t measure their love and affection in this brutal way. Remember, they did all for u, while facing all the hardships of life. Contrary to it, you must at least try to reward your partner for the pains they had taken only for you. Even if your partner might have not done anything for you, and you might have done everything for them, but don’t you think, love alone is the reason enough to do that, it was only love which bounded you to do that.
Fill all the vacuums, as a good deed done with a pure heart never go unnoticed. A message conveyed with a heart filled with true love always reaches its destination. A voice that was unheard since long will be heard.
So don’t waste your time, if you have not made any attempts till yet, then let your love reach your beloved’s heart. Let them feel your love, your affection, your care in the most beautiful way.
Some people easily express their feelings and some find it hard to voice them. Many reasons are responsible for this like shyness, reservations, hesitations, fear, resentments, etc, and so it differs from person to person. Communication is the key component to rekindle your relationship. It helps in sorting out the misunderstandings that have been hanging on your neck like a rope since long. It helps you to tell your innermost feelings and act as a channel for sharing your embedded emotions. Sometimes it is necessary to reveal your inner feelings. A message should always be conveyed to the person who holds importance in your life.Conflicts happen in every relationship. There are some critical moments in everyone’s relation and love, but it depends on both the partner how to resolve those differences and sort out their conflicts. Always make an effort to end the conflicts before the day ends, and if that does not happen then, surely, with the arrival of new dawn open your doors for this new ray of hope and love. Try to avoid heated arguments. You may come out as a winner in the situation but remember you can loose the person. Never let your anger dominates you; you guide it rather than anger ruling you.
Disrespect and humiliation are the embedded reasons which can pierce your soul mate’s heart. Never ever yell on your partner, remember there are ways of handling any crucial situation by making the communication peacefully so as to make the matter light. Whenever, you will inflict your partner it will inflict you equally, you will go through the same pain but more intense too. It subsequently will make none of you happy.
Showering blames and accusations on your soul mate for any problem, trouble, misunderstanding, circumstances and misfortune will never make the picture beautiful. It will always tarnish the picture of your love and marriage relationship.
Reviving old bad memories and again having conflicts on the mistakes that had been committed by your partner knowingly or unknowingly even after he/she had realized their mistake can make the situation and relationship worse. After forgiveness is granted never open that matter over and over. Remember reviving those nightmarish memories will reap the seeds of anger, grief and sorrows. It will breed only resentment. It is a flame that can burn your relationship and turn it into ashes.
Don’t slap the person for that deadly past, if they hold any, once in their life, as they have had shared with you those painful times. By confronting them to it you are reviving those wounds and in that whole unnecessary process you forget, they had laid their trust on you believed you to heal and cure their wounds.
Never question your soul mate, what have they done for u? Never say, it’s me, who has done everything in this relationship, it goes on and on. Always observe in silence whatever your love your soul mate has done for you. Don’t measure their love and affection in this brutal way. Remember, they did all for u, while facing all the hardships of life. Contrary to it, you must at least try to reward your partner for the pains they had taken only for you. Even if your partner might have not done anything for you, and you might have done everything for them, but don’t you think, love alone is the reason enough to do that, it was only love which bounded you to do that.
Fill all the vacuums, as a good deed done with a pure heart never go unnoticed. A message conveyed with a heart filled with true love always reaches its destination. A voice that was unheard since long will be heard.
Love, Healing & Peace
