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Love is always pure and perfect in itself. Love is just being. Love is just expressing itself in relationship. Be it any kind of relationship. It’s the people who are tagged with label of imperfection. Why do we search for perfection, is love not enough in itself? I guess, what perfection’s definition according to today’s people is if things what others do, are not up to our expectations. May be, they might have done their best also. We need to sometimes ask ourselves are we perfect? It’s okay to be imperfect, but yes, we should always strive to do our best, to be a better person. To polish our qualities, and try to overcome our non healthy habits which aren’t of any benefit and sometimes kills our relationships. It could be like, not having faith on your partner, doubting them. We always focus on changing others, rather than changing our thought patterns, our habits in total changing ourselves. When even we try to change, immediately our ego puts forward our inbuilt defense mechanism always eager to shield ego, telling us we shouldn’t change for others. But, let us not forget the truth the facet that we cannot change for others, we can only change when we really want to change and that too for our own selves, for our own betterment. It must be very clear that first we want to change and then why we want to change there has to be a reason, a drive and a motivation, like what benefits it can bring to me.
I have seen people who want a perfect girlfriend, a perfect boyfriend, a perfect husband and a perfect wife. But if one is not perfect people change their partners, definitely they should change if there isn’t any scope left for any improvement in their relationships or circumstances. But, if there is single hope single measure that could be taken one should always try because we can change partners, we will meet another and even if they aren’t perfect we can look forward to another one but how many times and till how long? We just need to check. To come out of pain, bitterness, it’s easy to blame others. Holding someone else responsible for our problems, pain and circumstances is easy and safe also. But, its never true and doesn’t solve our problem also.
Instead of focusing on problems, shift your focus on solutions, appreciate more, love more, and just take first step to dissolve things. Do everything with the pure intention of love, it will work, or if things didn’t work out in the end you will still be contented that you had been all pure in your love all the while you did your best and gave your best shot. I believe Love never goes unnoticed. Trust me, one day you too will believe.
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