The Blame Game in Love!!

Some boys keep on humiliating their girl. They stress always on parting the ways, in breaking up. They claim to love but never respect their love. They have no softness no humbleness. They always expect the girl to sacrifice. A boy expects her to forsake anything and everything for him. The boy never skips any opportunity to hurt her. He fastens her with false charges. She often falls prey to his frustrations. Whether, he is angry due to his work, studies, and career and family, but here the girl will be subject of his anger and rage. He pass the buck of his miseries to her.  Boys think in strange ways, they usually think that the whole responsibility of their relationship holds on girls. They expect their girl to take care of their relationship, making tremendous efforts to make it successful and long lasting. Her efforts should be efficacious, according to him. If they break up, she is made realized that she has been responsible for all this. Moreover, a stage comes where he accolades her for every misfortune.

She feels painful and desolated. That never-ending pain grows vast and the insecurities never vanquished. No heart quells those fears. She heard those hard words, which slashed her heart. The faith plunged, nothing she could do to salvage the hope and preserve it.  Every time a girl feels wounded and disgusted. Tired of those never ending complains and accusations, finally gives up her relation.

If a girl is silent, it doesn’t mean you are her weakness.

If a girl is silent is doesn’t mean that she did not possess strength.

It only means that she loves you, and it would be painful for her to see you hurt.

A girl is not a subject of humiliation and accusation. She is silent that doesn’t mean vulnerable for hurts and grief.

If you love her then respect her, honour her with your love. She loves you isn't that significant? she stood by you amidst all the troubles, through high and low, through thick and thin.when you were shattered she was the one, who recollected every broken piece of you..........still, if you cannot love her, respect her.....Love is not meant for you!!

Love, Healing & Peace

Stuck? Move On!

There is a perfect time for everything, everything blossoms and fades out, be it success, glory, sunshine, passion, love, inspiration, motivation, affection, care, fame, even from work to relationships. Even the most significant things of life come to a stand still and seem no longer significant. Old memories fade away with time. You miss your heart in everything. Yet, you desire all to preserve, every delicate yet significant things of life, sometimes you get success, while sometimes you fail. Try not hard for something that is draining your emotions, your energy and your positivity. May be its time to bid adieu and switch to something new inspiring and evolving in you.

You have to find new inspiration, new motivation, and new zeal.Revive your embedded passion, your creativity, and search what your hearts want. What you want from this life? What God wants you to do? Let all those old wounds evaporate from your soul. Restore it by new breath. Nothing completely vanishes it just transforms. Your experience does not fade it goes in no vain. Everything you learned, every emotion you experienced will be with you entire life. Don’t cling to anything that is getting rotten, be it relationship or your work. Afraid not of losing, this is already in a miserable state.

May be god want you to see new life, new hope, new love, new experiences, and new dreams, those all waiting enthusiastically to unfold. Eradicate the old, merge with the new; Let your actions be taken in the most natural and pure form. follow your heart, your spirit, when you are guided by spirit whatever you undertake will see its best form leaving you cherished, accomplished, joyful and yes, you feel a sense of achievement too. You don't have to compel your heart for any action, whether for any relation, for love, any work or any career.  Since it did not last forever, it doesn't mean it wasn't worth trying, worth looking.

Don't force yourself for doing everything immediately, for instant love, instant success, for immediate decisions, just allow yourself take a natural course, a divine course of heart and spirit, take your own time. The world may not like your action, the world may not be satisfied with your decisions and may not support you, but remember, do not be afraid the world will not clear the mess too. You either have two ways, to follow your heart, which is your own very part, or follow the guidelines decided by the world. The world will criticize you, blame you, but your heart will never.

The time period for which it was for you, you have loved it pure heartedly; you have worked on it with full dedication and devotion. However, since now its time for its decay, you cannot stop it from that destruction. Change is a part of nature you cannot avoid change. If this had been then people for sure would have everlasting relationships, never ending success, eternal love bonds. It just means, your time has come to work for something new, to accept that newness. Yes, accept it before its too late; accept that new love, that new bond, that new work, new relations, new hard work, new success, that new passion. Do everything with your whole heart, unmitigated passion, perpetual faith and deep inspiration and in spirit. Trust yourself and your results will do wonders.

So Trust and Move On!!

Love, Healing & Peace