Some boys keep on humiliating their girl. They stress always
on parting the ways, in breaking up. They claim to love but never respect their
love. They have no softness no humbleness. They always expect the girl to
sacrifice. A boy expects her to forsake anything and everything for him. The boy
never skips any opportunity to hurt her. He fastens her with false charges. She
often falls prey to his frustrations. Whether, he is angry due to his work,
studies, and career and family, but here the girl will be subject of his anger
and rage. He pass the buck of his miseries to her. Boys think in strange ways, they usually
think that the whole responsibility of their relationship holds on girls. They
expect their girl to take care of their relationship, making tremendous efforts
to make it successful and long lasting. Her efforts should be efficacious,
according to him. If they break up, she is made realized that she has been
responsible for all this. Moreover, a stage comes where he accolades her for
every misfortune.
She feels painful and desolated. That never-ending pain
grows vast and the insecurities never vanquished. No heart quells those fears.
She heard those hard words, which slashed her heart. The faith plunged, nothing
she could do to salvage the hope and preserve it. Every time a girl feels wounded and disgusted.
Tired of those never ending complains and accusations, finally gives up her
relation.
If a girl is silent, it doesn’t mean you are her weakness.
If a girl is silent is doesn’t mean that she did not possess
strength.
It only means that she loves you, and it would be painful
for her to see you hurt.
A girl is not a subject of humiliation and accusation. She
is silent that doesn’t mean vulnerable for hurts and grief.
If you love her then respect her, honour her with your love. She loves you isn't that significant? she stood by you amidst all the troubles, through high and low, through thick and thin.when you were shattered she was the one, who recollected every broken piece of you..........still, if you cannot love her, respect her.....Love is not meant for you!!
Love, Healing & Peace
highly feminist but well said! :)
ReplyDeleteAgree to Mahek...well put
ReplyDeletePerhaps, when encountered with such a kind of situation, it should be the girl to walk out of it.
ReplyDeleteBut then they say,
Love to faults is always blind,
Always is to joy inclin’d,
Lawless, wing’d & unconfin’d,
And breaks all chains from every mind.
Deceit to secresy confin’d
Lawful, cautious & refin’d
To every thing but interest blind,
And forges fetters for the mind.
- William Blake
It's hard, but she needs to get out.
Cheers,
Blasphemous Aesthete
The narrated Girl in last paragraph is not in existence now...
ReplyDeleteGuys are simply blind if they are not able to truly recognize their girl's worth.
ReplyDeletekind of true at times!
ReplyDeleteTrue.. Men actually do this and yet, later come to the girl and try to make it up. But i doesn't need to happen. there are men who are better than those who do this. I am a victim/to-be-victim ( :\ i dont know yet) of one such person..
ReplyDeletewe accuse women without keeping faith in them. we fail to respect them. i know. reading it felt like me going through a memory of my own.
if you can, read my article on the same theme : http://blackandwhiteheart.wordpress.com/2011/11/28/her-name-is-hope-1/
Well written. It happens the other way too, not very often, though, as men mostly don't love a woman the way she does.
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