When in life we face tough hard times people around us, generally, our family, friends, and relatives consoles us. We all have heard clichés like “Don’t worry, everything will be fine and alright”, “God is there with you, have faith”. In those hard times, these words become the resource of our strength. They relieve us, comfort us, and make us believe that this phase of life is temporary and promises for a change to happen. It has to move out of our lives.
There are people, who display their different reaction during crisis. They are attention gainers. They talk aloud about their problems and distress, and will compel you to lend an ear to them, even if you are not interested. They will shout, becomes frustrated, irritated and succumbs to reaction.
Other ones are those who distance themselves from their known surroundings during the phase of stress and crisis. They remain calm, compose, and respond. They always stand like a pillar.
Take your problem be it financial, emotional, psychological, or physical, in an objective manner. The first thing to be done is to analyze your problem overall then divide it into small fragments. Find out, the portion that you can dealt with and the one on which you have no control. Find out, the reasons of your suffering? How they effect you? Then look for solutions. For example, suppose, if you are in a relationship that is on the verge of break up, then make it clear that whether you want to save it or not? Seek for the hidden reasons that were responsible for this relationship to collapse. Then look for best possible ways to save it.
When you start, collecting and accumulating yourself all over again, you acquire a new self-confidence and you start believing that your trust and conviction will be true. This aids in getting a clear picture of a vague direction. Self-confidence, firm conviction, and hope for a better tomorrow are the best ingredients one need to have, so not to succumb to any crisis and distress.
We all can take advice from our chosen corners, but do remember that people have their own perception, their own cognitive ability, and their own way of thinking. They just speak their own mind. But who knows you better than your own very self. So you have to be smart enough to grab the worth and piece of advice and adhering to it.
The people distance themselves and occupy a space in their cocoon when face with problematic situations. They observe complete silence and nullify their communication with the surrounding world. Well, it’s a process or technique to contemplate upon their distress and implant a reservoir of energy in them. Silence helps them to concentrate from every perspective objectively without any indulging themselves too much into it, yet connecting with it. They close all the doors and windows for the outside world and make most of decision in a pin drop silence. Nothing seems foggy and obscure to them.
So just, fill your basket with a bunch of self-confidence, firm conviction and a bud of hope. Keep moving ahead with a belief that the Dark night shall pass soon with a new dawn…
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