Get Ready To Give up!!!

Before the year-ends and you see a new dawn of another new year from your window, eradicate yourself from harmful weeds of addictions. Addiction is just a momentary pleasure and enjoyment, which soothes your nerves for a very short period. It helps in low time. It refuges man during his low phase. Be it snuffing smokes, taking drinks or a packet of drugs, or anything that you pursue during your lonely private hours, you just love it, sinking with wine, cigarettes kissing your lips, drugs satiating your taste buds. Anything that helps you provides you emotional assistance you become dependent on it. It relieves your nerves, though for a temporary moment. But for exquisite taste for which it is taken, it’s delivered.

Many visible and hidden reasons are responsible for joining hands with addiction, be it alcohol, chain smoking, or chewing cocaine. Sometimes it starts with peer pressure, sometime fashion, or prevailing trend to be in the race of contemporary world. People know the hazards still cannot escape from the swirl of smokes; the taste buds crave for it. You linger, whether you are in crowd or remain secluded.

People strongly feel the urge to quit only when they have a fear of loosing something precious and valuable to them. It could be any relationship, any motivation; health issues also compel them finally quit the game. Why to make your life dependent on temporary pleasures that in life exists as parasites. However, when a man decides to quit firstly inner war takes place, he looks at its harms, his loss in it, and goes through a phase of motivation, which gives him firm conviction to give up.

It is a perfect time to bid farewell to your addiction. Why to have an empty bottle of Vodka or beer, or an empty packet of cigarette and cocaine, while putting at stake the love and affection of people who loves you a lot and you too love them a lot. It’s a reason enough to give you strength to give up man.

So, get addicted with some real pleasures, rather than craving for temporary carnal pleasures…….

The Virtual Glimpse!!!

Technology has trapped us in its web wing purely and perfectly. Social networking that an era before was confined to meeting out everyone, in your vicinity, to friends and relatives to spending some quality time with them has condense to Orkut, Facebook, Twitter, etc. Internet has various reasons to sway you, like building network, big friend list, with a number of new requests waiting, social causes, games application, blogs, etc. You just love every page of it. You love to update your status, you are fond of uploading your pictures and feedback of people on it, and you love to be a tweetheart.

A man freezes his date with internet because the torrential valley of internet provides him emotional contentment, outlet for creativity, silence and solace, words and music. It is a serene landscape. When you return home from work place, totally stressed out, you don’t have someone to waiting for you. For children, when they return home from school their parents are at work. You work in new urban vicinity, no parents, no siblings, and no known familiar faces and talks. You then switch to internet; you enjoy saying a virtual “Hi”, rather than making a phone call to your parents, siblings, beau, or beloved. Exceptions are always there. You become supple; you screw around to introduce yourself to that new virtual environment. The twenty-four hours seems less and you mechanized your life accordingly. Sometimes you don’t have anyone to get you a glass of water. You have no one to see your tired face. You have no one to go home and see a beautiful loving face that can rejuvenate you. Your new best friend is your laptop, your mobile, your virtual world. But no time to connect to the real world real people which makes your world. Virtual world gives space and escapism.

So enjoy!!!! while not putting at stake everything, take a sip of recreation, but not addiction. Get some real addiction rather than virtual addiction.

Koi Fariyaad........

Har Sajdae mein tum ho

Har Jasbae mein tum ho

Har Fariyaad mein tum ho

Dil ki yaad tum ho

Har Dhadkan mein tum ho

Reet ke Bandhan mein tum ho

Badalte Mausam mein tum ho

Thaire Waqt mein tum ho

Dil ki Gherai mein tum ho

Meri Tanhai mein tum ho

Tarasti ankho ki Nami mein tum ho

Bandh palko ke Sapno mein tum ho

Haari hue zindagi ki Aas mein tum ho

Khamosh dil ke Ehsaas mein tum ho

Har Khushi mein tum ho

Bekhudi mein tum ho

Sawan ki Boondh mein tum ho

Oas ki Thand mein tum ho

Preet ki chunar mein tum ho

Baware mann ke Bhawar mein tum ho

Sare jahan se Chura lu tumhe

Apni baaho mein Sama lu tumhe

Pal do Pal ki Saaso ke liye nahi

Zindagi bhar ke liye Chupa lu tumhe.......

Confession of Love!!!!!!

People love madly to someone.....but most of the times afraid to express their love, sometimes due to rejection, sometimes due to situations. They finally give up their feelings and love, even before confessing. To love someone is the most beautiful feeling on the Earth. Don’t steal this feeling inside your heart sometimes it is necessary to go and confess your love may be miracle will happen….The lines reflects the heart of any person who loves someone but never confessed...…but now making a holy confession before its too late…..

I never had the strength, but now I am saying

Truly, I Love You.

I was wandering for life, with deep pain in heart; tried to accumulate myself, the self that was broken in tears.

The shattered soul, by the scorching sunlight and windstorms of life,

Is all I had.

In flowers, I see thorns of life.

My sense never felt any aroma, any touch

My heart never tuned to music.

But the moment you came as a windfall in life

I began loving every moment of it.

Every moment started capturing new memories of life.

The sun soothes me with a ray of hope, the hope for love, happiness, and joy.

The wind caressed my soul, it snuggle me with arms, I could feel it.

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The prickles turned into the pathway of blooming flowers.

My heart feels your aroma ; spread around me.

My heartbeats tuned to the rhythm of your love.

For now, I have your beautiful essence in the serene life.

You lie everywhere, in my passion, my compassion

Whenever I close my eyes, I dream of you and with deep in my heart I say

I Love You…….


 Well, wanted to tell you all, had written poems deciphering deeper meanings on love, life, soul. Aren't they all are interconnected to each other. My book "Thousand Words In Million Silent Ways" is an amalgam of emotions and feelings coiled together in words.

The wish of the Soul I have a wish

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Love’s Last Wish!!!

This is a last wish of an angel…who loves her beloved very much more than her life…but eclipsed by destiny..she is on her death bed, every second her breath is sinking….she is reluctant to depart from her love….but destiny has its own plan..so here she is asking her beloved to spend last hours with her before she makes her journey to heaven…..

Let me Love you tonight, for may be I shall have no tomorrow

May be, for my eyes shall be closed forever

Clasp me in your arms;

Hold me tightly

Let me feel your warmth, before I become cold

Let my breath caress your neck

Let my fingers interweave with yours.

Let me look into your eyes and touch your pearl of tears

Let me rest my head on your heart and dissolve thy fear

Let my palms feel your lovely cheeks

Let me whisper a word of love in your ears

Let my smile travel through your lips

Let my fingers ruffle your hair

Let me touch your forehead

Let me kiss your breath

Let me cuddle you

Let me embrace you in my arms tightly

Let me feel secure till eternity

Let me kiss your heart, kiss your soul

Let my soul coalesce with yours

Let my breath amalgamate with yours

Let this bond sanctify

Let this solace be bountiful

Let me be awake, before I sleep

Let me treasure a moment of Love, a moment of Bliss

Before I miss….

Yes, before I Miss…..

Flavour of Hope!!!

When in life we face tough hard times people around us, generally, our family, friends, and relatives consoles us. We all have heard clichés like “Don’t worry, everything will be fine and alright”, “God is there with you, have faith”. In those hard times, these words become the resource of our strength. They relieve us, comfort us, and make us believe that this phase of life is temporary and promises for a change to happen. It has to move out of our lives.

There are people, who display their different reaction during crisis. They are attention gainers. They talk aloud about their problems and distress, and will compel you to lend an ear to them, even if you are not interested. They will shout, becomes frustrated, irritated and succumbs to reaction.

Other ones are those who distance themselves from their known surroundings during the phase of stress and crisis. They remain calm, compose, and respond. They always stand like a pillar.

Take your problem be it financial, emotional, psychological, or physical, in an objective manner. The first thing to be done is to analyze your problem overall then divide it into small fragments. Find out, the portion that you can dealt with and the one on which you have no control. Find out, the reasons of your suffering? How they effect you? Then look for solutions. For example, suppose, if you are in a relationship that is on the verge of break up, then make it clear that whether you want to save it or not? Seek for the hidden reasons that were responsible for this relationship to collapse. Then look for best possible ways to save it.

When you start, collecting and accumulating yourself all over again, you acquire a new self-confidence and you start believing that your trust and conviction will be true. This aids in getting a clear picture of a vague direction. Self-confidence, firm conviction, and hope for a better tomorrow are the best ingredients one need to have, so not to succumb to any crisis and distress.

We all can take advice from our chosen corners, but do remember that people have their own perception, their own cognitive ability, and their own way of thinking. They just speak their own mind. But who knows you better than your own very self. So you have to be smart enough to grab the worth and piece of advice and adhering to it.

The people distance themselves and occupy a space in their cocoon when face with problematic situations. They observe complete silence and nullify their communication with the surrounding world. Well, it’s a process or technique to contemplate upon their distress and implant a reservoir of energy in them. Silence helps them to concentrate from every perspective objectively without any indulging themselves too much into it, yet connecting with it. They close all the doors and windows for the outside world and make most of decision in a pin drop silence. Nothing seems foggy and obscure to them.

So just, fill your basket with a bunch of self-confidence, firm conviction and a bud of hope. Keep moving ahead with a belief that the Dark night shall pass soon with a new dawn…

Big Boss - Getting Bigger!!

India gave a warm welcome to our videshi mehman Pamela Anderson, so as the contestants of the show too. This was not for the first time that the show had some foreign faces, the earlier seasons of Big Boss has Jade Goody, Claudia Ciesla and now none other than the ‘Baywatch’ damsel so to have a soaring TRP of the show. However, the other two have been the contestants of the show but Pamela Anderson had her role of the guest in ‘Big Boss 4’. Well, during her visit to India, every male heart must have dreamed about all the whims and fancies. They might have skipped their heartbeats not once but many a times.

Miss Anderson received a huge amount to spread her magic to wave the show. She was in the show with great zeal and fervor. She adjusted well with other inmates and did not even distance herself from the household work like making chapattis and cleaning the floor with a broom in hand. You just cannot even once miss the scene out of your memory, if you have seen her dancing on Madhuri Dixit’s ‘dhak dhak’ song. She did her job with élan, the show had witnesses high TRP.

Everyone might have had their bagful of mission accomplished, be it the channel, the special guest, the contestants, and the viewers too. The television industry works on the principle of “Masala Entertainment” it has everything the climax, the surprises, the drama, the music, fun and what not so to serve a spicy plate of entertaining food, to satiate the Indian nerves.

An array of episodes featuring her finished with time, but wait for the next package…..

Don’t be Fast to Form Opinion

Whenever we look at something or someone, we perceive and then cogitate upon it that further leads to opinion formation. However, degree of cognition and way of perception varies from person to person. Opinion formation is an easy and quickly formed web of entangled threads of man’s view.

You look at someone laughing or smiling and may think that person may be so happy but its not necessary because behind those glittering smile there can be silent tears deep down in the heart, but not readable for every other person. You may engage in a talk or discussion where many are speaking at high pitch, but, if someone is mum is generally regarded as unintelligent, looked upon as ignorant even sometimes fool also. You might have come across such instances where people form immediate opinion doing autopsy of that person’s behaviour and temperament.

Like, if, somebody is introvert then is misunderstood most of the times and tagged with arrogant, rude, and self - centered even if that person does not poses any of these characteristics in the real sense. He/she may be shy, hesitant, a bit reserve and not indulgent in chitchat gossip. May not be sociable or gregarious as many others, but who cares people are in a hurry to form opinion to draw conclusions. They say, one simplest thing, “hum to aise hai bhaiya”.

Why always be in a haste to draw conclusions. Wait, think, analyse, if necessary and required first then find out the facts, reasons, before sketching your opinion. Just have a look, to this example, when people see a girl and a guy together anywhere like eating in a restaurant, hanging in the college, even working together, the first imprint that forms image in their mind is that of a boy friend and girlfriend or something is going around between them. Whereas, those two people may not be boyfriend or girlfriend, they can be good friends, colleagues, cousins too. Nobody knows the reality. When parents give a piece of advice to their children, the children then without thinking upon it, opines that their parents do not know anything and are just passing their views as a burden to them. A piece of advice given with love and concern has now become as a note of unwanted lecture. Generally, when a person shows anger in any circumstances due to which react on any person instead of responding on such a trifling mistake sometimes that person is consider rude and short tempered. However, that temper may not last long and with time the person who expressed his anger may realise his mistake and express his guilt being sorry about it.

What is important over here is that, whether be it children, friends, life partners, colleagues, parents, or even people who are not acquainted with each other must not form opinion in a hurry; they should immediately not judge the person. Rather, they should look from the other’s side and sometimes in a neutral way. Human brains need to have flexible approach and come out of that rigid cocoon.

Piya Re......

Har saas kehti hai mujhse ki unme tum buste ho.....

Har parchai kehti hai mujhse ki mujhme tum dikhte ho.....

Har khawab kehta hai mujhse ki unme jhalakte ho.....

Har khusboo kehti hai mujhse ki har zajbaat mein tum mehekte ho.....

Har lamha kehta hai mujhse ki unme tum rehte ho.....

Har ansuu kehte hai mujhse ki unme tum behte ho.....

Har hawa kehti hai mujhse ki aas paas se tum gujarte ho.....

Har chandini kehti hai mujhse ki unme tum thairte ho.....

Har saas kehti hai mujhse ki unme tum buste ho.....

Har parchai kehti hai mujhse ki mujhme tum dikhte ho......

Big Boss & The Big Drama

Money has a supernatural effect. Money could make anyone dance on its tune. This has come to lime light with the shadi tamasha show cased in the Big Boss. The dhamaka episode promised to show you the nuptial hours of Sara Khan and her better half Ali Merchant.

On the contrary, Media world belonging to the print and broadcast revealed another story vouching it to be true. They are claiming that the contestant Sara khan has already tied the nuptial knot somewhat two years back. The media revealed that the couple was showered with hefty amount to re-marry under the roof of Big Boss’s house.

What a combination of Marriage and Moolah, both dwelling in the same hut. The stage was all set and the respective characters played their defined roles with a sense of perfection. Everything was ready the band-baja and the baaratis but just before that the wise media unveiled the curtains of this drama even before the show began. What a reality show!

Everything has become superficial in today’s world and feelings have entered the realm of commercialization. The market knows their part and firmly holds a grip on it.

Jo Tum Keh Do

Jo tune kaha nahi abhi vo baat hai baki.....

Tere aane se pehle adhuri raat hai baki

Jo to tu chup rahe, khamoshi  hi khamoshi teri saathi....

Teri ankhon me padh lu mein ek gehri udasi

Nahi saamne aye jo vo.....

Teri dil ki baate

Tere ehsaaso ko sunn lu mein.....

Tere dil ke raaste

Aj jo tu keh de...apni khamoshi todh de.....

To mein sambhal jau

Hass ke ankhon mein apne sare gum mein chupao......

Jo tune kaha nahi abhi vo baat hai baki.....

Tere aane se pehle adhuri raat hai baki.....

Love is Not Always Sunny!

Love is not always sunny necessarily not shimmer with stars and moon. Not necessary has amiable relationship with rain and rainbows. Can you love the person all the time even if he/she is showing bad to you? You may assertively say a big Yes. However, when the vague circumstantial scenes come in front of our eyes, you may doubt it.

Not all the people are fully good or imbibed with only virtues or even wholesome bad at all the time. Sometimes either the situations are responsible for displaying the darker bad side of human beings or sometimes the ingrained temperament. Reason whatever be but it is the beloved, close and dear one who more often experiences those darker sides, like anger, fury, frustrations, abuses, blames, rudeness, ego, etc. It is the loved one is vulnerable to that elated ego. The ego that inflicts you, even you do not know how many counts. Many of the times, you have tough battles to lead in your external real world and apparently hundred more battles with your inner self. This hapless and unchanging course of life leaves you in the end cold, emotion less, with animosity, insensitive towards your own self, ostensibly happy and cheerful. This unwanted strange behaviour of your beloved makes you void with hurts, wounds, scars. Abandoned as a vagabond you find yourself standing and suffering with damage self respect in spite of your immense love.

Colours of Love can be different for different people, some have bright, lively shades speaking their own love story and some have dull gloomy shades in their canvas called life. In spite of this unknown truth, everyone undertake a risk called love.

Dilemma!! Eating You Up???????

Frustrations, Coolness, dizziness, gloominess, roller coaster, cake walk, mystery, surprises and dilemma all these words are appropriately, related to life. Sometimes chosen and sometimes landed automatically.
Dilemma comes in every turn of the never-ending road. What choice to make, on what to lay your hand and what to leave or discard in life. Interesting part is the dilemma does not end here after making a decision rather it continues rushing after, that whether the time taking tough decision that you made is right or wrong. If one hell is crossed, another is peeping.

Dilemma comes with a packet of questions always avidly ready to bewilder human heart and brain. Is there any sequence of life that has not been its target? Dilemma comes while choosing clothes to cell phones, while career, a perfect job, and employment, even making a choice for life partner. Moreover, a thought to consider what is actually better or best for yourself always haunting around you. Is this appropriate or not? Shall you say this or not? What would be the answer or consequences of it? Which one you should buy for yourself? Is he/she the one with whom you wish to spend your whole life?

The smokes of confusion always swirl in the air. Many a times you sit quietly and ponder upon, that cannot things come without any puzzle or complexity in life? In the end, you might seem standing stagnant with an array of questions and ready to fluster in that swirl.

It might have happened with each one of us, sometimes we accept and sometimes we decline it. Isn’t True?????? Still Thinking?

Anjana Anjani & Love

Days back, I saw the movie Anjana Anjani, as the name suggests the movie is about the two strangers meeting coincidently at the same place at the same timing and eventually falls in love. However, the real world sometimes in some cases contradictory to the virtual world. Here people even after spending together so many beautiful years, even after creating many loving memorable memories for their frame called life. This does not suffice the word what more can be said is that people who have remained together in a crucial trying phase remains Anjana Anjani for each other. A bud of relationship ready to bloom dies away as its aftermath.

Couples in love relationship or tied in nuptial knot even after so many years being together encounter with hidden aspects of the temperament of their beloved, which have remain embedded until that day. Many a times people could not bear this flabbergast and bear with heart breaking ailment.

There can be two hidden aspects of person’s attributes. Occasionally or circumstantially, people get encounter with them. Sometimes life reveals the brighter side and the love couples meet with unexpected pleasant surprises. For example, suppose, if your partner has never expressed his or her feelings in a romantic way and suddenly comes out with surprise like this you would definitely be amazed to see this.

However, the darker and gloomy side reflects another scene, which is painful. This generally happens during troubles, fights. When doubts and suspicions occupy love, usually by ego, selfishness and insensitivity love gets dethroned. During this moment you find something strange though unexpected and unwanted temperament of your beloved coming your way.

In both of these world side, you or your soul companion may have remained Anjana & Anjani. So just glimpse upon your love and find, Is there something Anjana & Anjani still left??????

The Modern Version of Ravan

Vijaydashmi or Dusshera has been celebrated due to the victory of Lord Rama over Ravan. It is the festival of victory of good over bad or evil. The victory of joy over sorrows, victory of light over ignorance and darkness. With the passing time traits of Ravan has changed tremendously. Ravan of today's world has become more advanced and Hi-tech along with that they have become corrupt and mean. It's not new to introduce ourselves with these Ravans, I am sure, many of us have been confronted to them atleast once in our lives. These Ravans belong to the tribe of today's corrupt politicos, bureaucrats, corrupt babus of government offices, authorities spreading communal violence and universally spreaded terrorists, the totally upgraded and transformed version of Ravan.

Today's Ravan is imbibed with characteristics of greediness, discontentment, decietfulness, power and charm of money, its all just travelling across their neurons of the brain. Power, money and peddling is a note of concern for them and Moral Values have NOW taken a back seat. Blood shed, violence, brutality are the arms and ammunition of terrorists (Ravan).

Recent apt prodigy of Ravan reflecting all the above traits is CommonWealth Games 2010. The colossal and prismatic reflection of venality, lack of skill, competence, casual attitude of insouciance coupled with laxity. But this can be find anywhere as government offices are occupied with same ilk always ready to take bribe, sometimes openly sometimes secretly.

In this Ghor Kalyug what else we can hope for, but as it is rightly said in a proverb "Exceptions are always there" there are people upright in real sense, who believe in social upliftment rather having an individualistic approach.

India's another name is "Golden Bird", but these Ravans have looted their own heritage booty.

Munni Hit the Controversies - "Itna Kyu Badnaam Hue" ?

While the song "Munni Badnaam Hue", from the movie "Dabangg" is peppy enough for some of the people to drag them to the dance floor, the song is hit with repeated controversies. The media revealed that the bollywood is a copy of a Pakistani song " Ladka Badnaam Hua Haseena Tere Liye" from the movie "Mr. Charlie".

Another controversy it attained is for using the word "Hindustani" in an allegedly disparaging or derogatory manner by using it in an item number, for this they have been issued a legal notice.

And the pain relieving balm had given immense pain to the production house for using the word " Zandu Balm" in the song. Well Malaika had resolved the dispute by being the brand ambassador of the "Zandu Pharmaceuticals".

Its not the first time that the bollywood song has been engulfed by controversy, just look back to history, we will definitly find numbers of them.....Whatever it may be the news just comes out!!

CWG -Make an Awesome Beginning

At the last minute all turned out well...3rd October,2010 sharp at 7pm, Jawahar Lal Nehru stadium warmly welcomed the Desi and Videshi Mehmaan. It accomodated around 60,000 people. The bride's veil was unveiled and the world saw the Indian beauty wittout blinking their eye.
The ceremony augmented with the dhvani of shankh and after an array of speeches finally the President Pratibha Patil declaired the "Game Open". The show stopper of the CWG2010 show was Aerostat, the worlds largest helium balloon of Rs 70 cr. The crowd took full enjoyment of laser and fire work. There was amazing amalgam of art culture and technology. The mega sport opening ceremony was quintessential in all its sense. The theme was conceived of vibrant and dazzling Indian culture, commonality under the one roof, rhythm of harmony with  various regional music all merged or blend in one Indian shade.

It has scenes of performing artists, the Indian railways and tempting cuisines all served in one platter. The songs played by Hariharan & A.R. Rehmaan especially the official theme song of CWG  and another hit number "Jai Ho".

Its good to know that the global media as of Australia and Britain has rated the Opening Ceremony spectacular. At the end note we can say that Jai ho.

Common Wealth Games 2010 - The Indian Chapters

Though, its Uncommon for India to host CommonWealth Gmaes but when given this oppurtunity and privilege the government and the organising committee has taken it too commonly. while every day or every hour a new compelling story gets revealed via media about the disorganization, mismanagement, corruption happening in the CWG2010. Even when the guests are standing at our doorsteps preparrtion for this mega event still going on at this 11th hour. The CWG organising committee has shed all the charges and accusations dwelt upon them saying just an excuse "If they had got the venues earlier they would have done more work". Isn't strange that seven years are still not enough to hold this mega sport event in an organized way, that too with always increased budget that was fixed for the games.

From sanitations to lodging everything is improper. Toilets were cluttered with all garbage and stained with paan, even there was no proper water supply there, and yes, there was water leakage problem in the pipes. Stairs made for fire exit lying broken and water all around the village area providing a medium for thriving of mosquitoes. Even the wi-fi system is not working. The bed did not had a plywood on it and the mattress were embellished with footprints. The collapsing of the bridge made with 10 crores had collapsed the Indian image globally. The finishing work is still going on or you can say the fianl touch is yet to be given. The news shows that animals are hunting in the games village the best exemplary are snakes and dogs. The latest news revealed by the media is that the water taps, bed sheets hav been stolen from the flats of the village.

Well the organizing commmitte would have swollen with confidence to know that many participating nations and atheletes have withdrawn their names from CWG. The teams which have landed India had at first stayed in the hotels to take safe shelter rather than at games village.

The chalta hai attitude had made the government always indulge in hibernation and aestivation. Wake up now, before its too late. But for now, we are bhagwan bharose!

Pre-Marital Counselling- Why its Necessary ?

Well, marriages are made in heaven, but the nuptial knots are tied here on Earth. Marriage is a lifetime decision so taken with great care, vision and prudence, as it brings with it lot of onuses. which even in thoughts cannot be ignored and taken lightly. In earlier times parents, elder members of the family and relatives draws a brief sketch of the married life to the people whose marriage is fixed or who are about to get married. So our closed ones and well wishers always advice us to take indepth care before making final decision and also about the changes that takes place in one's life after getting married. Most appropriate description of this is Pre-Marital Counselling. But nowadays, scenario has underwent minute changes. This graph of counselling which earlier was done by parents, relatives,etc. is now a bit stretched to marriage counsellors.

The institution of marriage is based on the foundation of love, trust, honesty, care, affection, faith, mutual respect for each other, compatability, mutual understanding and being comfortable with each other. these all make  this institution strong and most beautiful relationship. Still along with these ingredients marriage can run from the tough time. Notwithstanding of these pearls of life marriage can face a havoc. If both the life partners are not working hard on their relationship it can be ruined. But before this stage comes why not couples get counselled.

These days Pre-Marital Counselling sessions are prevailing in very much. It is done so as to counsel the prospective life partners, to anticipate them about the coming changes, problems and adjustments of the married life. They tell the ways and measures so as to lead their married life with harmony. During the Pre-Marital Counselling sessions, the counsellors tells about how to avoid the conflicting situations from arising. What are the real changes, effective and influential in nature that takes place. After the marriage changes in expectations, priorties takes place. How to resolve ego clashes, and the measures to to bring in some positive changes in your married with devotion, dedication and most importantly love for each other which believes in seeing the happiness of the life partner or Soulmate.

SAVE ENVIRONMENT - Environment Day

Lets save environment from hazards and destructions caused by Global Warming...many things can be done individually as well as collectively to reduce the global warming impact by reducing carbon dioxide emission as it gets trapped in the earth's atmosphere and thereby trapping ultra violet rays of sun warming the earth's average temperature. by stop cutting the trees i.e. Deforestation, by using solar energy resources and its equipments, by plantings some more trees i.e. Afforestation as the trees absorbs carbon dioxide and gives out fresh oxygen to us, due to global warming many species like polar bear have come on the verge of extinction. Glaciers too have started melting which in turn rises sea level, when carbon dioxide is emitted directly in the water banks it destroys the ecosystem.........so many hazards are there but its our responsibility to make persistent efforts to save the Earth and Nature both have blessed us with gifts to survive this life...

THE FINAL VERDICT - Ruchika's Death

The family cannot fill the vaccum created with Ruchika Girhotra death but justice had brought a little contentment some peace and a ray of hope for her family. With the culprit being sent behind the bars truth came to the surface of the victory, for a heinous crime of molestation Ruchika and her family suffered a lot their lives were filled grievances and sorrows with an immense pain in their heart of loosing a family member yes, a daughter, a sister. Though people in high powerful positions or ranks use their power for their interest and in their support but no crime can be spared from god's eye and came the final verdict the culprit being nabbed for the charges were proved true against him and the punishment came with the verdict.

God's Love.......Be Thankful

God bestows everybody with love . The day one child occupies a place in Mother's womb.......is perennial thereafter. Thanks to God that he blessed each one of us with his Love and Mercy. No matter to which religion one belongs, no matter to which strata one rules, no matter in how many figures one earns, no matter how one looks no one is ugly for him for his child is exceptionally beautiful and sepical in his eye. God always protect us from every pitfalls and forgive the admit faults......He nurture us with love and with same love he showers same affection on little cute children........

WORDS

Words are so strange, when said they Always play an
Effective and Influential role.....
Words when Harsh , Blunt , Rude and Full of Rage can cause Great Agony ,
can Pierce the Heart , Shattered the man and even can Wounded the Soul.....
                               BUT
Words when Soft , Touched with Affection , Love and Care
can Warm the Heart , Console the Heart ,
Consolidate the man and can Deeply Touch the Soul...........

ITS STRANGE YET TRUE...........

Manzile!!!

VO raaste jo mil jaye to un Manjilo ko choo lu main

Baadte hue kadamo se Sitaro ko choo lu main

Havao ko keh do Disha vo dikha de

Phoolo se keh do Chaddar vo bicha de

Chamak jaye vo angan Jo jagmagaye Sapne mere

Adhurae na reh jaye vo khawab toote mere

Dhumil si zammen par dhumil sa Ehsaas

Sagar se chalke boond boond me Aas

Aasuo se keh do jo gire aye vo Khushi se

Jhoome re jia mera jo pure ho Khawab Zindagi ke