Filling New Hopes

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You must not cry today, you had shed your tears on many sad dramatic events. You wish for something and you get something else. You know this truth deep inside that when you pretend to feel happy and gay from outside and your soul weep. Weep like a lonely lover. Crashed hopes, shattered dreams, broken love and sinking friendship all lost. Sigh!

You must sit down for a while, turn inwards search your buried wounds. You know they are there at the core occupying the corners and the center. Accept them, they are a part of you and now, it’s time to remind yourself of filling those pores with new burning faith, gleaming hopes and ashes of passion. Which you have had once laid on the wooden shelf. You are the zeal called Life. You can ignite that ray of hope; it’s yours, truly yours. When those rays of hope starts fading again, tell your heart you have the quality, the matter, which can ignite not once or twice but innumerable times. You are precious, valuable and perennial source of gleaming hopes. You have a heart, it's not just flesh or shell, its your life force You can’t die in vain. Nor can this be the end of your story........

Your story has just begun!!
The great chapters of life will soon unfold Magically and Miraculously........................

Sparks of Love in Marriage

‘Love instilled in marriage

Can bridge the new and old gaps

Ever created in any heart

Be it Love or Arranged Marriage

Always do remember

It’s just beginning

You have to travel afar’

Life is a complete package of relationship; some are blessed by destiny, like our parents and siblings. While some we pick and choose from our life like friends and of course a life partner. Being at marriageable age you are sure to encounter with questions like when are you getting married? And the kind of marriage love or arranged one, you would prefer in your life?

We grow up playing ‘Gudde Gudiya ki Shaadi’……but it’s strange when real life hits us we soon realize that it’s no more ‘Gudde Gudiya ki Shaadi’, a feast or a bonanza. We begin with a different notion but we end with a different definition based on experiences in relation to time, space and people. People change, time change, situations change and so do our needs priorities and perception. The inner metamorphosis sometimes even changes our beliefs.

Be it love or arranged marriage, LOVE is that sparkling element which lights the heart and soul of the partners. Every relationship is a pure amalgam when respect, trust, faith, commitment, compatibility, understanding, companionship, fidelity and dedication are all merged together. They play a crucial role in cementing this bond. As they waft love through beautiful various ways from one soul to another. We all know love balms and soothe every grief. Marriage does not come with the guarantee card. There is no perfect formula that makes sure that if its love marriage it has 100% chances of survival or if its arranged marriage you can be sure that it will withstand any crucible circumstances or situations unwanted.

We all know that both love and arranged marriages have their own pros and cons; they have their effects and side effects too. But LOVE is that drug which immunes married life, because everything comes out of love. Love is spontaneous. You talk, you listen, you wanna understand and you wanna express yourself, all because you love your beloved and everything your thoughts, your words, and your actions originate from that perennial source. Love needs to be intertwined with acceptance, forgiveness and immense patience. Marriage is a life long commitment. One needs sincere and honest dedication to glide along the even and rough surfaces. You grow when you accept each other in the way they are, in spite of the differences in thinking and habits you not only welcome but value each other. Only for that one single reason that you love your better half and this life is really wonderful sharing with them.

Marriage is like exploration. Whether it’s love or arranged one. In love marriage you are quite aware of some specific chapters though some real definitions are yet to be discovered. While in arranged marriage your syllabus becomes twice. A little more appreciation and refrain from criticism.  Mutual respect and commitment towards each other makes the bond strong. While expressing your love helps in exploring different and hidden shades of love which always comes as a surprise from your partner.

As long as the focus is on the beaming lights of love one can hope that whether it’s love or arranged one, marriage can dazzle life even through the dark tunnels.

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Cutting the chord of attachment

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It only takes few steps to move ahead and open the inner you and tie that bond of attachment, but it takes persistent efforts, tremendous amount of strength and courage to cut that chord of attachment once and for all while mind saying Yes and heart reluctant.

Someone who can read your eyes

 Fortunate you are

If you have someone

Who can read

Your eyes

For the one,

Who has mastered the art of reading eyes,

Can read

Heart also.

Anjaane Sannate

In bikhare hue sannato ko

Ek jashn mein

Badal de

Aye khuda

Yahi hai

Meri tujhse

 Pehli aur akhari dua

Let People Judge

Let people judge, 

 Sheer wastage;

Your job is

Keep persevering

In the end

It is worth

Because it’s the same section of people

Calling you beautiful,

Will search for ugliness

In you,

Isn’t that true?

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Unfathomable Emotions

This new emotion

Absurd, enigmatic

Tickles a heart

Pacify feelings

But buried below

Remains,

Indelible hurtful remnants

Some baneful memories

And a veil of fear.

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Silence....................

“Every silence has a different meaning, it solely depends on the situation and the two people sharing it...........”

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Ek Dua

Aye Farishte

Jab Teri Dua

Us Khuda Tak Pahuchegi

Toh Yakeen Itna Rakhna

Ki Asmaan Se Ashishae Barasegi

The One who is reading is Farishta (Angel)

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Pain In You........

"Pain does differ from people to people but the main thing is that every pain hurts with the great  intensity and leaves one wounded forever......"

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Love Never Fails

 There is no fast or slow love. Love exists deep in care. It bonds with affection. It wafts in small trifling fights and in wooing each other. It exist in a throbbing heart; a heart missing its beats. It exist every time when your love is near, even at times when love is far from your arms but captured in heart. There is cold outside but you are warm inside. Love exists when you hold hand, when you cuddle and hug tightly. When happiness and sorrows swirling around, in laughs and tears, in hopes and fear, in silent talks and silent prayers. You search for pain hiding in those eyes, troubling you day and night. Love exists when you ask How are you? When at wee hours you message them just to tell them they are one occupied in your thoughts. Isn’t its love when you hide you are hurt and wounded and you still pretend to show as if everything is alright, nothing to worry about. Your own pain takes a back seat. When tears trickle down your cheeks and you manage to smile camouflaging them. In spite of those silent hours you break the ice.  You know the unpleasant brutal reality but heart yearns and craves for hope and fantasy, for dream. When you love someone and your love have no clue about it. When you know it’s not for you, but all you want is that love’s love. Its just love when you steal a minute just to have a glimpse of your love.

Love is never logical; it’s unfathomable never based on reasons. When under limitations you quest for freedom to love and to be loved. Sometimes you don’t know what to talk but you want to talk and talk and you talk gibberish. When you know what pester them and you repeatedly leave no chance to tease them. Love exists when you have no fault of yours and you say “I am sorry, let’s end it”. When you feel jealous and you pretend and say “I am not jealous”. Love exists when you least expect and love gives you a reason to smile, when you support your love for everything, for every decision. When you have a huge fight and say “bhaad mein jao” and you come back to your love only to say “I Love You”.

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Imtihaan

Har ghari zindagi mera imtihaan leti hain

Kabhi naye kahaani

Toh kabhi purani dastaan likhti hain

Karvaan aisa chalta rehta hai imtihaano ka

Ki piche murke dekha maine

Toh dono haathon se fisalti

Hue zindagi

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I Don’t Know

Sometimes mind abolishes or denies co-operating, reluctant it becomes to work and accomplish set goals. Sometimes you don’t know what actually you want to do. You become unaware of your own thoughts; you become unaware of your own heart’s wish. You wanna a pick up something and read, but soon you give up. You socialize virtually Facebook and Twitter, but you end up faster than you started. You try hard to concentrate but you fail. That underlying anxiety, restlessness creates trouble. You feel lost. Even, after trying umpteen numbers of times from creative work to other important routine work you end up landing no where. The mind needs liberation, the heart needs freedom both feel suffocated, and both feel caged. Time hovers like a dagger. Breath wants to relax. You don’t know what is apt for this situation. You know not what you want, but nothing seems perfect. Nothing soothes your heart. Only helplessness prevails. You have no answers. You only have questions, a feast for your mind. You have no fodder for your brain. No nourishment for your soul. No cure for your mind and heart. You move, you tumble, and then you rise again. You walk and just walk to chase happiness, to capture bliss, to unite with peace, to chase happiness to chase life.

Anything suddenly can bring joy. You tap into blessing. Surprisingly happiness falls. Bliss and ecstasy knocks at the door of your life. Peace starts returning. Chaos evaporates, you feel no more tangled in web of uneasiness. Heart no more feels tormented. The discomfort flows. The new feelings in the heart just dance to new tunes and rhythm of life. Perfect!! 

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The Blame Game in Love!!

Some boys keep on humiliating their girl. They stress always on parting the ways, in breaking up. They claim to love but never respect their love. They have no softness no humbleness. They always expect the girl to sacrifice. A boy expects her to forsake anything and everything for him. The boy never skips any opportunity to hurt her. He fastens her with false charges. She often falls prey to his frustrations. Whether, he is angry due to his work, studies, and career and family, but here the girl will be subject of his anger and rage. He pass the buck of his miseries to her.  Boys think in strange ways, they usually think that the whole responsibility of their relationship holds on girls. They expect their girl to take care of their relationship, making tremendous efforts to make it successful and long lasting. Her efforts should be efficacious, according to him. If they break up, she is made realized that she has been responsible for all this. Moreover, a stage comes where he accolades her for every misfortune.

She feels painful and desolated. That never-ending pain grows vast and the insecurities never vanquished. No heart quells those fears. She heard those hard words, which slashed her heart. The faith plunged, nothing she could do to salvage the hope and preserve it.  Every time a girl feels wounded and disgusted. Tired of those never ending complains and accusations, finally gives up her relation.

If a girl is silent, it doesn’t mean you are her weakness.

If a girl is silent is doesn’t mean that she did not possess strength.

It only means that she loves you, and it would be painful for her to see you hurt.

A girl is not a subject of humiliation and accusation. She is silent that doesn’t mean vulnerable for hurts and grief.

If you love her then respect her, honour her with your love. She loves you isn't that significant? she stood by you amidst all the troubles, through high and low, through thick and thin.when you were shattered she was the one, who recollected every broken piece of you..........still, if you cannot love her, respect her.....Love is not meant for you!!

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Stuck? Move On!

There is a perfect time for everything, everything blossoms and fades out, be it success, glory, sunshine, passion, love, inspiration, motivation, affection, care, fame, even from work to relationships. Even the most significant things of life come to a stand still and seem no longer significant. Old memories fade away with time. You miss your heart in everything. Yet, you desire all to preserve, every delicate yet significant things of life, sometimes you get success, while sometimes you fail. Try not hard for something that is draining your emotions, your energy and your positivity. May be its time to bid adieu and switch to something new inspiring and evolving in you.

You have to find new inspiration, new motivation, and new zeal.Revive your embedded passion, your creativity, and search what your hearts want. What you want from this life? What God wants you to do? Let all those old wounds evaporate from your soul. Restore it by new breath. Nothing completely vanishes it just transforms. Your experience does not fade it goes in no vain. Everything you learned, every emotion you experienced will be with you entire life. Don’t cling to anything that is getting rotten, be it relationship or your work. Afraid not of losing, this is already in a miserable state.

May be god want you to see new life, new hope, new love, new experiences, and new dreams, those all waiting enthusiastically to unfold. Eradicate the old, merge with the new; Let your actions be taken in the most natural and pure form. follow your heart, your spirit, when you are guided by spirit whatever you undertake will see its best form leaving you cherished, accomplished, joyful and yes, you feel a sense of achievement too. You don't have to compel your heart for any action, whether for any relation, for love, any work or any career.  Since it did not last forever, it doesn't mean it wasn't worth trying, worth looking.

Don't force yourself for doing everything immediately, for instant love, instant success, for immediate decisions, just allow yourself take a natural course, a divine course of heart and spirit, take your own time. The world may not like your action, the world may not be satisfied with your decisions and may not support you, but remember, do not be afraid the world will not clear the mess too. You either have two ways, to follow your heart, which is your own very part, or follow the guidelines decided by the world. The world will criticize you, blame you, but your heart will never.

The time period for which it was for you, you have loved it pure heartedly; you have worked on it with full dedication and devotion. However, since now its time for its decay, you cannot stop it from that destruction. Change is a part of nature you cannot avoid change. If this had been then people for sure would have everlasting relationships, never ending success, eternal love bonds. It just means, your time has come to work for something new, to accept that newness. Yes, accept it before its too late; accept that new love, that new bond, that new work, new relations, new hard work, new success, that new passion. Do everything with your whole heart, unmitigated passion, perpetual faith and deep inspiration and in spirit. Trust yourself and your results will do wonders.

So Trust and Move On!!

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